Mental health has taken an interesting turn in the last few years. Before, it was looked down upon to say you had stress or anxiety, but now it seems those are the hot new buzzwords in modern society. According to the
American Association of Anxiety Disorders (AAAD), anxiety disorders are the most common mental illnesses in the United States, affecting 18.1% of the population every year.
However, only 36.9% of those suffering receive treatment. While I am no medical professional, I have found a few strategies to cope with my stress and anxiety. Remember, you don't need to (and probably shouldn't) wait until you're stressed out to practice stress and anxiety coping strategies. Regularly taking time for yourself can have big benefits in the long run and is always worth it!
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ASMR- Have you ever browsed Youtube and stumbled upon those weird videos of people whispering, tapping on things and brushing the camera? That's
Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR). ASMR is certainly not for everyone, though. If you can't get past watching someone "role-play" while tapping on things, I don't blame you. However, it can be very relaxing and calming. It's also fantastic for helping you fall asleep. A lot of ASMR videos focus on personal attention and are great for anxiety because they serve as a distraction to get your mind off of everything and the sounds are very soothing. If you're brand new to ASMR, I would recommend the "No Talking" videos because they're not as weird. A few of my favorite channels are
ASMR Darling,
Oceans ASMR and
Jojo's ASMR.
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Exercise- Moving your body is a great way to cope with anxiety. Not only does exercise improve your physical condition, but studies have shown that it can also affect your mental health. According to the
American Association of Anxiety Disorders, aerobic, or cardiovascular, exercise has been shown to decrease tension levels, elevate and stabilize mood, improve sleep and raise self- esteem. Even just a few minutes of exercise can be beneficial. My favorite exercise to combat anxiety is
Zumba. It's such a high energy workout that doesn't feel like a workout and is great to get your body moving. You can take a live class, or do what I do and purchase the
DVDs.
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Meditation- Not too long ago, I discovered the power of meditation, which eventually led to my discovery of ASMR. As someone with a wandering mind,
guided meditations are the most helpful. Some will use visualization and take you on incredible journeys through magic forests, while others will simply tell you to be as you are and notice the movement of your breath. A few of my favorite guided mediations on Youtube come from
Jason Stephenson and
The Honest Guys. Meditation is a great way to clear your mind of anxious thoughts and just focus on being in the moment. It can take a lot of practice to keep your thoughts focused on the present, but it will be ok. It's important to let your thoughts come and go and to always focus on your breath when you find your mind wandering.
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Reading- This one may not be for everyone, but there's something so calming about being alone with a good book. Unlike Netflix or surfing the web, reading a book is never "draining." You don't feel like you wasted your entire night after reading for a few hours, compared to binge watching a show. Like the other strategies I have listed, reading is able to get your mind off things because it requires a consistent effort. It involves much more active participation than letting a movie play before your eyes. Personally, I prefer light reads when I'm reading to cope with anxiety and stress. I will usually reach for a self-help book or some science fiction.
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Therapy- If you find yourself not being able to cope with your anxiety and stress or if they are extremely severe, therapy is a great option. Traditional therapy can be very expensive, but online therapy is more affordable.
Online therapy has the calming feeling of texting a friend, but the benefits of talking with a therapist. Have you ever wanted to get something off your chest at 3am? You can send messages 24/7 and you never have to hold anything in. You can even reread your therapist's messages as a positive reminder when you're feeling low.
Better Help and
Talk Space are just two examples of online therapy and can start as little as $49/ week for unlimited messaging.
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One Step At a Time, One Day At a Time- On your worst days, it's important to remind yourself to stay focused and be in the present. You don't need to have it all together every second of every day. Don't try to do it all at once. Focus on one little task you can do to make yourself feel better and then move on to the next. Take it one step at a time and one day at a time.
It's going to be ok. I promise ❤️.
What are some ways you cope with stress and anxiety? Leave a comment down below!
XOXO,
Isabella Dominique
FTC Disclaimer: I was not sent any of these products. I am not affiliated with the companies mentioned. All opinions are my own. I am not being sponsored to make this blog post.